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Do we Connect when we Communicate???

Most of us are well aware when the connection on phone is either good or  really harrowing. We are so much perturbed and annoyed if the connection starts  to go bad, we merely flare up. Its all about losing connectivity

But have we ever bothered about being connected while communicating either in person or through any media. we really have no idea if we are connecting with our nears and dears in every day situations. Have we ever gauged how successful we are by connecting while communicating. Do we give  a sure shot connectivity or is it we are very much aware of the intensity of how connected we are – ground level reality is the hustle bustle life.

Be it a Husband to his wife, a mother to her child, an employer to his employee, a brother to his sister in all varied relationship is there a deep rooted connectivity while words make a downpour day in and day out. What are we heading towards?

To build a sweet family, to make life happier, to be healthy ,to die for the welfare of our kith and kin….We do all these at the cost of losing connectivity

Wi-fi connection – everywhere  from hospitals to airports, offices to schools, railways stations to Malls. There is a possibility to breath at the worst case without oxygen but in this new- gen era there is the least chance to breathe without a Wi-fi connection.

When we reach out one-one with someone important in life do you receive signals of Love, synergy, empathy, appreciation, openness, positive, emotional support or at least either one of these , its sign of connection??

The art of communication is not mastered by just knowing what to say and how to say it. Everyone talks, speaks, utters, shouts shares and etc….

Everyone communicates…very few  connect.

Those who do connect take their relationships, their work, and their lives to another level. 

 Connecting the key to skyrocket your quality for life.

 How do we do it??

As human beings, we’re constantly taking in information through our five senses and processing it at an average rate of about 4 million bits of information per second. A vast majority of this information absorption and assimilation takes place unconsciously. Consciously trying to process all this information might be fun, but it certainly wouldn’t be sustainable or practical. Therefore, in order to discern and utilize relevant information, our nervous system filters it.

Our individual filters are determined by our perceptions of time, space, matter and energy, as well as the language we use, our understanding of words and gestures, our memories, the unique way we go about making decisions, the patterns we look for when selecting information, our values and beliefs, plus our overall attitude.

Our communication is based on the processed information.

Our programming is determined by the sum of our experiences throughout our growth and development as human beings. Fortunately we have the authority to reprogram the mental states and behaviors that we’d like to update. For example, understanding how our physiology (body posture) affects our state and therefore how we communicate, provides the agility to change strategies in order to better understand people, as well as to be better understood. Then staying connected becomes a cakewalk.

Live life!!!! stay connected!!!!!images

To All Women Out There!!

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The word cherish is always compelling us to stay in the state of appreciating moments of our lives. Often we hear people talking about cherished memories. My entire query is “Why do we wait for that jiffy second to become a memory and then to treasure it sometimes in the later point of life. Why not we do it right now??

It’s easy to one day wake up and wonder, “ I cherish myself being a radiant woman, just escalating all the goodness in me to everyone who encompasses my life”.

Day in and day out dealing with a million mundane details around us , we fail to signify what we really are . Just rolling over the days and in fact of our lives, not surprisingly we somewhere fall short in actually acknowledging what we are.  Rather we feel exasperated more often.  We are one among the million of the women on the planet who has no clue about what do we exactly do to ourselves. The saddening part is either we are ignorant or not bothered. This way of living manifests itself into a kind of droning days, for which we become incensed before long.

Undeniably, exclusively on this day, as well in the forthcoming days, appreciate all components of you. There is need for heightened awareness that You are important to yourself.  Pay respect to petty things that you need in your life. It may be a cup of aromatic coffee every enchanting morning or a toothsome sweet late night. Being sacrificial is the inherent trait of us, but my concern is don’t be unmindful about YOU.

You are unique and you augment the strength within to boost the striking world around you. You give your essence and soul, aligning yourself with everybody around.

Make it your earthly priority to appreciate yourself every moment of your life.

STAY CHERISHED EVER!!

                                     HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY

To All Women Out there !!

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The word cherish is always compelling us to stay in the state of appreciating moments of our lives. Often we hear people talking about cherished memories. My entire query is “Why do we wait for that jiffy second to become a memory and then to treasure it sometimes in the later point of life. Why not we do it right now??

It’s easy to one day wake up and wonder, “ I cherish myself being a radiant woman, just escalating all the goodness in me to everyone who encompasses my life .”

Day in and day out dealing with a million mundane details around us , we fail to signify what we really are . Just rolling over the days and in fact of our lives, not surprisingly we somewhere fall short in actually acknowledging what we are.  Rather we feel exasperated more often.  We are one among the million of the women on the planet who has no clue about what do we exactly do to ourselves. The saddening part is either we are ignorant or not bothered. This way of living manifests itself into a kind of droning days, for which we become incensed before long.

Undeniably, exclusively on this day, as well in the forthcoming days, appreciate all components of you. There is need for heightened awareness that You are important to yourself.  Pay respect to petty things that you need in your life. It may be a cup of aromatic coffee every enchanting morning or a toothsome sweet late night. Being sacrificial is the inherent trait of us, but my concern is don’t be unmindful about YOU.

You are unique and you augment the strength within to boost the striking world around you. You give your essence and soul, aligning yourself with everybody around.

Make it your earthly priority to appreciate yourself every moment of your life.

STAY CHERISHED EVER!!

                                     HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY

Stay Young!

Young by age doesn’t matter!

Young by senses! Young by mind! Young by heart! Young by soul! Really matters!!

I still believe in the inhabitants of this planet earth! There is a positive intention behind all the attitude, behaviour and action of the mankind but their choice of exhibiting and executing their positive intentions is weak. Weak action will lead to weak results. Weak actions are the byproduct of weak mind, heart and soul which acts from the state of pain.

We need a sensible mind, loveable heart and purity in soul. We need a young vibrant mind which acts from the state of power. We need a young loveable heart which acts from the state of abundance. We need a young pure soul which acts from the state wholesomeness. Powerful, abundant and pure thoughts lead to sensible words, deeds and deliverables.

There is a need to understand the science behind change in attitude, behaviour and action. We need an insight and sensible awareness about the paradigm shift which leads to Awakening. The need of the hour is the shift from state of pain to state of power. The call of the hour is the shift from state of scarcity to state of abundance. The cry of the hour is the shift from state of narrow inwardness to wholesomeness.

This is possible with proactive reflection and practising the process of eliciting the value system, breaking the limiting belief, quarantining the unfavourable trust, increasing the positive norms and by expanding the power of choices.

Believe you can change yourself. You can program yourself with the higher order of thinking and living by habituating and germinating a thought seed into word, deed and result. All in the mind! A powerful thought repeatedly triggered will become a word. A repeatedly uttered word will become an action.  A repeatedly attempted action will lead to results. Yes we can!

Believe! Change is possible!

Stay young by mind, heart and soul always! Take action!

The Best Feeling- Laughter

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Stroll your superfluous mile

With a scintillating smile

Hopes all set in the unforeseen path

All wannabe dreams you make’th

Life at its absolute exploration

Remember you reach the destination!!!

 

Laughter may be all your side

Canopy it is, the law you abide

Uncover the world of happiness

Gift of the almighty with its wonders

Unfurl it by your journey

Unfound by any of your penny!!!

 

Laughter is between the dew drops and leaves

Laughter is between the shell and the shore

Laughter is between the star and the clouds

Laughter is between the soul and the body

Laughter is between the blood and the vein

Laughter is between the student and the teacher!!!